
Papa Jeff is a native of rural North Carolina. He is a white, cisgendered, 69-year-old, masculine gay male, and regional titleholder who is conscious of the overlapping privilege and problems inherent in this stack of labels. Last year he served as Mr. NC Leather 2025. He is currently serving as Mr. SELF 2026 (SouthEast LeatherFest).
Papa Jeff came into the Leather and Kink community in 1979 and was mentored and trained by Daddy David Wright for two-and-a-half years. In 1982, Papa Jeff began traveling for work. From then until 1999 he lived or worked in 43 states and 11 countries, never staying in one place for too long.
In the Fall of 1999 family circumstances brought Papa Jeff back to North Carolina where Daddy David helped him connect with the Charlotte Tradesmen. He became a full member in 2001, and through the Club he found his voice, his community and, ultimately, his family.
Over the years Papa Jeff has mentored many in their Leather and Kink journeys. As he works with others, Papa Jeff follows the model Daddy David used—in-depth discussion, hands-on training, supervised guided exploration, observation, and encouragement. He focuses on personal growth and building positive behavior patterns but uses discipline when needed.
Papa Jeff identifies as a Top and a Dominant. His kinks include fisting, cock and ball torture, flogging, spanking and paddling, fire play, and passive restraint and light bondage. He is learning more about impact play and is interested in exploring needle play.
In January 2026 Papa Jeff was humbled and honored as he was presented his cover by Sir Stick and Jade while surrounded by members of his Leather Club, and surrounding area Leather communities.
He appreciates making new friends and renewing connections with old ones. When you see Papa Jeff, come say “Hello!”
